The best memorial to Marcus
On Friday, our region will say a sad good-bye to a little boy we never knew in life.
The remains of Marcus Fiesel, a three-year-old murdered by his foster parents, will be buried, an act of compassion and dignity in a life that knew so little of either.
No one can forget Marcus, but the question is how should he be remembered? Memorial ideas are pouring forth, from a benefit for programs for autistic children to a wall replacing the chimney where his body was burned. Well-intentioned people have suggested everything from a designating a Marcus Fiesel bench in the park where his foster mother falsely said he went missing, to naming the Cincinnati Zoo's new baby rhino in his honor.
Those acts may make us all feel a little better, but the best tribute to Marcus would be a way to keep more children safe -- and that would be for more kind, responsible, child-loving people to volunteer to be foster parents.
3 Comments:
Please, just bury Marcus and let's move on...
Let it go...
Yeah, how long are you guys going to milk this for? Can we look for pages of anniversary stories in just a few months?
There are none so blind as they who will not see...burying your heads in the sand won't make it go away - we have had so many recent claims of child abuse - how can the story end, when the abuse continues and the needs mount.
Now, I would like someone explain to me the lack of outrage while this Clermont Cty judge takes her sweet time deciding where these kids go. It is a travesty! THese children should have all inspections, reports psych and med evaluations, etc done in a fricken week and a decision made - playing with their lives, delaying hearings for months in the future without any rhyme or reason - is ludicrous AND waste of available foster parents.If the juvenile courts would get their darn ducks in a row, get the jobs done fast, we would have more kids in homes of relatives or others fighting to have them and not wasting the human and financial resources within the community.
WHAT IS GOING ON HERE?
(And God forbid we find out Baker's kid really was molested while in foster care - these kids deserve and need the very best protection we can provide them - they will have problems for years.)
PS Enquirer, what kind of record does the Dad have that he hasn't been given immediate temporary custody of his own children?
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