Making sense of a senseless death
All too often, we read about sad events such as the death of Natalie Fossier, the 9-year-old Clermont County girl who was killed by a falling tree branch while walking her dog outside her home Tuesday afternoon. Such a terrible story inevitably generates various comments and questions along these lines: How can a loving God allow such things to happen? Is this part of a plan or just another random act of an unfeeling universe? What does this tell us about our own mortality? How do we talk about such events with our children, particularly when they're so local and involve another child?
Today's news story on Natalie's death has generated this kind of discussion in its SpeakUp! comments section, and we'd like to continue that discussion on the Editorial Page. Add whatever thoughts you might have to the story or this post, or e-mail me at rcooklis@enquirer.com (please include your name, neighborhood and a contact number) and we'll add your perspective to the conversation.
5 Comments:
Are you serious, Mr. Cooklis?
What's to discuss? A child was tragically killed in a freak accident. The only " perspective" I would " add to the conversation" is this: stop the conversation!
Let these people mourn their daughter in peace without inviting every crackpot in town to sound off about whether or not God would " allow such a thing".
The answer is OBVIOUSLY - YES.
Are we to take PRO/CON positions on this issue? Put me down as being 100% against death.
Life good. Death bad. Death by unfortunate circumstance bad. I think laws should be passed outlawing tree limbs and ice storms. Further, the parents of this child should be held responsible for not having sawed the branches off of the tree before the storm. They must have known what could happen. Also, the dog is to blame because it was there for her to take out for a walk.
Are we supposed to learn something here.If so,what?
how dare you Mr. Wood who are you and what world are you from? Natalie is my cousin and her parents are my aunt and uncle and they are very good parents. If a tornado strikes your home should you be held responsible for building or buying in that location or do you live in a cave?
CL
CL-Natalies death was a terrible accident that no one could have foreseen. That it occurred is beyond horrible in that there no one to blame-nothing on which to focus your rage at the absolute unfairness of it all.It just happened.
But, the Enquirer, by soliciting readers reactions to this tragedy, is improperly using Natalies loss to churn emotions, and by doing so, is delaying the ability of your family to begin the long, painful grieving process you must all go through. This is by nature a very private individual process, not a public process, and you should be left to get on with it without interference from the paper.
The ridiculous assertions in my comment were intentional,to point up to the paper the consequences of publishing articles that are superfluous and a callous disregard for your privacy, and was not in any way aimed at you or your family. No offense,CL, I'm on yout side.
I must agree with Mr. Wood. There is nothing to discuss. Horrible accidents happen all the time; it's not for us to comment on them or "process" them or do anything at all, except for pray for this family in privacy.
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