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Wednesday, November 15, 2006

Email Your Mother

My 84-year-old mom is technology-resistant. Make that technology-phobic. Actually, make that technology-petrified.

Now retired from the position she held in my little office stuffing copies of my cartoons into envelopes for syndication until just a couple of years ago, she is happy and healthy, enjoying her own company in a cozy home on the west side. Mom still drives within her ever-narrowing comfort zone, but like many older folks her world seems to shrink a bit each year.

As my sibs and I exchange emails containing family news and photos, joking and jabbing in a near approximation of our banter around the dinner table forty years ago, I can't help but long for Mom's presence in the jabber. These little conversations would broaden her world again, not to mention allow her to be casually in touch with old friends who remain a daunting long-distance call away. But my brother, sisters and I have talked it over and we're sure the internet would totally flummox Mom, intimidating her from the corner of her spare bedroom with its cryptic commands, destabilizing her sense of peace.

Surely someone else has experienced this issue. Isn't there an email system out there designed for those Greatest Generation late-adopters who can't crawl under desks to reboot their internet connection or fathom the confusing language of computers? I know they aren't leading the way to new revenues for online providers, but they did save the world once for us. Could we design a simple email system that allows them to keep a foot in our world?


3 Comments:

at 12:55 PM, November 15, 2006 Anonymous Anonymous said...

Jim - I don't know about an "easy" email program, but whatever you do, get the very BEST virus protection you can for her, and set it up to run DAILY. Voice of experience here - we had to totally reformat my mom's hard drive on her computer after she got so many worms and viruses that the thing was completely corrupt.

 
at 3:25 PM, November 15, 2006 Anonymous Anonymous said...

My 86 year old uncle has been a "power" e-mail user for 4 years. He started out with one of those email only units, then we moved him up to an old simple computer with AOL (dial up) so he could see pictures. He has had a ball contacting old friends from the Navy and sending e-mail (jokes and pictures) to all the family.

Recently, we took him off AOL and moved him to Outlook and Explorer using Fuse. He was a bit befuddled at first, but surfs the web like a pro now. I agree with the anti-virus software and automatic scans.

My suggestion would be to start her out on AOL. Simple to use and there is enough variety there to pique her interest when she gets curious about looking for other stuff.

 
at 12:21 AM, November 16, 2006 Blogger Nasty, Brutish & Short said...

I have the same problem, with a number of older relatives. They were always so engaged and on top of things, but they can't (won't?) use a computer.

What people can do to stay engaged with technological advancements as they age would be a great topic for an newspaper article, in my opinion. I'm only 33, and I already feel left behind. I don't even have a myspace page or an ipod, and I came around to blogging several years too late. There's a lot I don't know what to do. I can't imagine all the information I'd be missing out on, if I were in my 80s.

 
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