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Friday, September 29, 2006

Heartbreak in Lakota

I got a phone call from my wife late Friday. I was at the office, shoveling weekend editorial page copy and such. Something was wrong -- that much I could hear in her voice. "I'm just trying to process this information," she told me.

My 9-year-old daughter, who attends one of the fine elementary schools in the Lakota School District, was getting teary. She was given a letter to give to us, saying she could be among the more than 12,000 elementary school students who may not be going to the same school next year.

Parents on Friday were sent letters telling them of plans to reconfigure school attendance boundaries next year, partly because of the school system's fast growth.

Meanwhile, my daughter is one of the early casualties, as are many of her friends -- if uncertainty and potential upheaval make you a casualty. Heartbroken, she fears she will miss friends she's made over the past three years. As the daughter of a journalist, she's moved three times, been in three different schools already and has had to adjust each time.

Our best hope is that the school district takes into account those friendships and community connections, and try to accommodate the kids and their parents as much as possible.


6 Comments:

at 8:00 AM, October 01, 2006 Anonymous Anonymous said...

My heart goes out to your daughter, and to all the other little ones in the Lakota school district. With a population explosion rivaling the gold rush of California, the school district is facing real struggles. Imagine too the parents of one in kindergarten and one in third grade - they will now have two drop offs and two pickups to manage. I also feel sorry for the parents in this situation.
However, may I offer a few little words of consolation to you. Regarding your daughter, she is still young, and if she's been in school 3 years, she's to the point where she and all her classmates should still be together. It's the kindergartners and first graders who seem to be the ones being moved the most, and these children are still very young, and very resilient. Your daughter is going to move whenever you do (which I hope isn't for many years, since you have the best suit in the group picture and this town needs class) so there is no guarantee she will remain even after the shuffling is over. She will learn, however, that her family will always be there, that friendships are transient things but can be sustained for a lifetime with joint effort, and that the place does not have to make the person. It is hard to move so much; I know, I did it too. But it gives you a perspective that those who stay in one spot all their lives can't imagine having, and we who have seen the world are better off for the experience, for we truly see all people in a much more open minded and less hateful role. We are more grateful for this country, for we see how others live. We are less afraid of differences and change, for we see the commonalities in us all. And that is worth every packed box and every shed tear, for we are the ones who can truly effect change.

 
at 8:16 AM, October 01, 2006 Anonymous Anonymous said...

I read this news in the Enquirer with sadness as well.

We've lived in and have been a part of Lakota since 1990. Our children have seen the unpleasant challenges of redistricting.

It's never easy. We've seen Lakota redistricting that hasn't been terrible, and we've survived redistricting that *has* been pretty terrible.

However, think of the voting climate here in West Chester. No one is in a big hurry to vote for the construction of still more schools, and COAST lays in wait, sharpening its fangs and anticipating its pounce on the community once more. Redistricting seems like the only option.

I no longer have children at an elementary level in Lakota Local Schools, but there was still a twinge of sadness at this news. The Lakota elementary school that both my boys attended has seen the best and the horrible worst of redistricting in the past. It looks like this school and many others are in for another radical change.

It's heartbreaking news for Lakota students who are worried about how this change will impact them.

 
at 5:35 AM, October 03, 2006 Anonymous Anonymous said...

This is another example of organizations making changes for the convenience of the institution rather than for the benefit of the clients. It happens in every organization.
But as people keep having babies the schools keep adding structure. Shifting kids around becomes inevitable.
But little ones are adaptive, and new friends expand their lives.

 
at 7:11 PM, October 03, 2006 Anonymous Anonymous said...

Lucky Lucky Lakota kids. They have an excellent school disctrict, great teachers, beautiful buildings and parents that care. Unlike many poor districts, Lakota is careful enough to avoid overcrowding & they only want the best for their kids. Some students may feel displaced for a few days, in their state of the art new building. I bet neighborhood friends are still taking the bus together.
When lived in West Chester we told our teens and preteens we are moving far away and you're all coming with us. You will not know the language and culture and will you not have any friends - for awhile. But I trust that you will rise to the occasion & learn a lot about yourself & others. It will not be easy. It was the best decision we ever made. Maybe if we teach our children tolerance and patience and let them know that people/places/things are always changing, they'll be better off as adults. Change can be very good if it's discussed in a positive manner. Your daughter will do great, Mr McCauley, because she has great parents.
Very Sincerely

 
at 7:15 PM, October 03, 2006 Anonymous Anonymous said...

Definition of casualty: An accident especially one involving serious injury or loss of life.
Changing to a new local school is not a casualty.
It's a disappointment for a few days, for some kids.

 
at 10:35 AM, October 04, 2006 Anonymous Anonymous said...

Unfortunately, the school district is little different than any other public service. It takes time to design and construct the facilities needed to serve the public, be they roads, sewers, water mains or schools. And the design and construction can never catch up until the population stabilizes. The situation is the price families pay to move into a fast-growing community.

 
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